In today’s world there is an unending quest for happiness.
But what makes you happy does not necessarily make me or
another person happy. In trying to pursue something which I don't want to
go after, I am probably living a dream of someone else.
The
question is....Is it something difficult to find out what you should pursue.
Is there something we can learn from others experiences.
One way
to look at it is from the perspective of terminally ill people. If you
have lived with someone who was in the terminal phases of cancer you would find
that they are in a hurry to achieve as many things as possible in the short
span of time they have staring ahead at them. They want to do many things and
the last days do see some good progress being made. They also
regret they tried out this so late....Learning something new, trying out
what one never tried out, meeting others, generally speaking. All
this in the midst of the suffering, the trauma that they go through.
There was an interesting post that someone put up based on the discussion she had as a nurse with the terminally ill patients she spoke to. Here's a link to the article.
There was an interesting post that someone put up based on the discussion she had as a nurse with the terminally ill patients she spoke to. Here's a link to the article.
The
five things that most terminally ill people wished they did was
a)
Had courage to live a life true to themselves and not living others dreams
b) Wish
they did not work so hard... burning themselves and not having time to be happy
and enjoy the small joys of life
c) Wish
they had courage to express themselves
d) Wish
they had stayed in touch with their friends
e) Wish
they had let themselves be happier.
These
are phenomenal ways in which we can look to in order to make things look and
feel different for us. Anything in hindsight might look simple
but to have thought of it that way was the difficult part. These
five are good cues to pursue in our lives. That would surely make it
easier not to regret that we missed out doing these things in a life time.